Sunday, March 21, 2010

A High Level of Positive Self Esteem Is Vital To Getting What You Want

I connect and work with a diverse group of people around the world who have a sincere desire to be, do and have more in life.

That's not an uncommon thing. The desire to have more. In fact we ALL have the desire for more of something without question. Our individually held desires for what more we want individually no doubt varies, but our desire for experiencing more, whatever it might be for us individually is ingrained in each of us.

You could say it's a very real part of who we are. It's our nature. I suppose you could say it's a universal thing.

Point being...wanting more, regardless of who we are or where we live isn't an uncommon thing.

But getting whatever more we might want is quite uncommon.

But the only reason it is uncommon is because the vast majority overlook and never fully come to the place that they understand the fact that to get it requires "believing" that we can have it. That's where so many people get stuck. They just settle for the fact that they don't have it, can't get it and that they might just as well accept it.

And while accepting what life delivers is important...vitally important...most accept unnecessarily. They accept "not having" because they "believe" they have to.

As a result of this "choice" as "unconscious" as it might be they never make the choice or take the initiative to begin "consciously choosing" to adopt the necessary "belief" to get whatever their more might be.

And that's the most vital part of getting whatever it might be that we want. In fact, that's the ONLY reason that people get or don't get "more" of whatever it might be that they want.

And it doesn't matter which area of life it is. It all boils down to the very same reason. It's another one of those "universal things." We get or don't get based on what we "believe" we can have or not have regardless of what it is.

Some want more love, others more money and still others greater and more vibrant health. But as much as they want it...as much as they "consciously desire" to get this thing, they "unconsciously sabotage" the possibility for it to show up.

They end up as the vast majority does, not getting it simply because they don't "believe" they can have it so they end up settling.

What so many "choose" to overlook is that their "belief" harmonizes with what they get 100% of the time.

It NEVER fails. It can't fail in fact. It's the immutable and unwavering design of the process.

It really doesn't matter if the individual desire is physical, financial, relational, emotional or spiritual in nature. That's the only thing that differentiates each of us and makes us unique.

And it also doesn't matter the size and scope of the thing desired. Because, whether you choose to believe or not believe that can you can have it, you get to be right.

Your belief supports the fact and the facts remain unchanged as long as you believe they will. You get to keep seeing the same thing over and over and over again. And that "seeing"...the results that we "see and experience" in tangible form as a result, solidifies our belief as to how "right" we are.

To see something different only requires that the cause creating it, be changed. Put another way to experience something else, it's only necessary to break the cycle that is feeding the process that creates the cycles that so many often "perceive" themselves as being unable to break, providing whatever we're experiencing and "settling for."

And the "BIGGEST" reason...at least that's what most call it...is due to a "lack of self esteem." They don't realize how powerfully creative...or if you prefer co-creative they are. They "overlook" and remain oblivious to the fact that it's what they believe regarding themselves, their lives and their ability to have or not have this "thing", which "allows" them to have or keeps them from having it.

I could go on and on, but since this is a "blog post" and not a book I'll leave it at that for now.

If you'd like to explore why what I've shared is "true", you might find benefit in what I've spent a number of years creating, sharing and writing about at abundance-and-happiness.com.

The Power of Positive Self Esteem specifically will provide more depth as to why I believe what I've shared here is "true."

Stay tuned, I've got much more to share and I hope you find benefit.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Unconditional Love, The Law of Attraction and You

I've discovered over the past few years since The Secret introduced what's currently being called the law of attraction that few make the connection between Unconditional Love, The Law of Attraction and just as importantly how we each fit into the bigger scheme of things.

As true as that is, the willingness to make that connection, if you haven't already, could mean the difference between mediocrity and greatness.

As great as The Secret production was, what could be accurately conveyed in a 90 minute production obviously left much more to know and understand.

Although attempting to write about it at the depth necessary in a blog post wouldn't provide the clarity necessary, I recently distilled it into the shortest yet most comprehensive format that I possibly can with the hope that you might benefit from what is shared as many have.

You can access 'Unconditional Love, The Law of Attraction and You' here.

Perhaps it will fill in many of the blanks that the Secret was unable to.